Finding purpose in your career does not guarantee financial success. Doing what you love does not ensure money will follow.
Some individuals, especially those navigating a mid-life crisis, may find themselves financially supported by their passions, but this is because it aligns with their destiny. If your destiny does not include financial reward for your chosen passion, then forcing the outcome will lead to frustration. Simply put, you can’t teach a fish to climb a ladder.
Every aspect of life comes with upsides and downsides, and destiny is no exception. The downside of destiny is that not everything is meant for you. Some places, people, experiences, and career paths will never align with your purpose, no matter how much effort you pour into them. Without clarity on your destiny, you will spend years chasing dead ends, caught in a relentless cycle of disappointment.
Without a clear understanding of destiny, three major pitfalls emerge:
1. Wasting Money
- Going in circles creates a downward financial spiral.
- Setting up businesses without purpose leads to bankruptcy.
- Investing in dubious deals drains resources.
- Falling prey to spiritual charlatans results in financial loss.
- Meanwhile, your family watches in frustration, wondering whether they should change the locks on the door.
2. Wasting Time and Energy
- Time is money, and effort is money.
- A misguided path consumes not just your energy, but your family’s energy too.
- You pour hours into planning, strategizing, and rebuilding, only to find yourself back at square one.
- The stress escalates into physical, emotional, and mental exhaustion, often leading to major health crises.
3. Losing Yourself
- Without a map, you wander aimlessly.
- Welcome to spiritual beggarhood where you end up feeling disconnected, lost, and searching for meaning in all the wrong places.
You could attempt to figure this out alone, but unless you have the right framework, you risk remaining trapped in crisis mode: physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
Here’s how mid-life crisis problems break down:
✔ Problem 1: Losing Money
✔ Problem 2: Losing Time and Energy
✔ Problem 3: Losing Yourself
The good news?
✔ All three problems share one solution.
Finding a life purpose that matches your destiny happens when you are true to yourself. This is not always easy. Three barriers often stand in the way:
- Lack of cohesive physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual values.
- Disconnection between these elements.
- Low self-opinion, which leads to victim mentality.
Breaking this cycle on your own can feel overwhelming.
The solution? Create Your Destiny Plan. It’s an approach based on your unique personality archetypes:
✔ Define your destiny with clarity.
✔ Discover your true life purpose.
✔ Learn to trust and welcome your path.
✔ Gain a reliable map that you can reference for the rest of your life.
There are benefits to knowing your true path:
✔ You save time.
✔ You maximise your efforts.
✔ You protect your finances.
✔ You escape the stress cycle.
✔ You gain direction and confidence.
Your journey through life is about more than escaping crisis. It’s about reclaiming your authentic Self, which is sacred.

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